Be Dateable

By: Justin Lookadoo & Hayley Morgan

1. Accept the truth because it turns off the pressure. Truth…the relationship will NOT last!
2. How much you put in determines how much it will hurt when it ends. Self preservation!
3. Guys will lie to you to get what they want. This means we all have different ways of looking at things. When girls say I Love You, it’s paradise…FYI! guys don’t mean it LIKE THAT.
4. Sex enables a soul connection. Shut up and be mysterious! The only way to come out of the relationship feeling proud and strong is not to give in.

Keep this in mind before & throughout the relationship:

HOW DO I WANT TO BE REMEMBERED?

• I am mature and mysterious. Fun, smart, witty, delicate, sensitive, and pretty…prettier, and sexy, not just physically.
• So, I will preserve myself. I will lower my pride so that I can understand him and the situation. I will listen and keep an open-mind. I will not hide any pain so that it will not snowball into a grudge and I will tell him how I truly feel without being selfish, immature, and insensitive. I will still spend time with my friends without making him feel unimportant. I will discover  and go out of the usual WITH him in order to make “us” cool, hip, and fun. I will also spend time alone to reflect and make myself healthier, physically, mentally, and spiritually. I must keep my deepest and darkest secrets to myself.

5. Be the treasure that got away.

• Be mysterious.
• Be adventurous.
• Get involved.Bonus! Boys want what they can’t have.
• Be creative. Get our and live life to the fullest.
• Be a carefree spirit.
• Laugh. Your body doesn’t know the difference between the fake and the real laugh.
• Be positive. The world already has too many negative vibes going around. People want to be around others who have good stuff to say, and that includes your crush.
• Ask questions. The first way to get people to think you are cool is to get them talking about their favorite subject, themselves.

6. People who lie are liars.Some friends are…

• Faced.Go ahead, think and know about your friends now because you know what they’re doing to you when you’re not around.
• Blabbermouth. If you have a friend that is always “confiding” in you and telling you other people’s secrets, do not tell that person anything.
• Loverboy. He will scam to get you so he will scam to get rid of you.Vice-versa.4u=2u…Girls, you control how fat you get!

7.Change your actions and you will change your character.